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Phrase(s): have one’s rathers [and] have one’s druthers
(More informal with druthers.) to have what one prefers; to have one’s way. • If I had my rathers, we’d go out every Friday night. • I suspect that if Joe had his druthers, he’d be taking Mary to the dance instead of Jill.
McGrawhill's American Idioms And Phrasal Verbs